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Art of pleasure

March 03, 2020
by Bliss
byron bay tantra, relationship coaching, tantra school, tantra training, Tantric Love Mandala
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The Art of Pleasure

 

Many people, men and women ask me, ‘How can I give my lover the best pleasure, the most delicious pleasure ever?’

Whether lovers are new, or committed, young or older, or heterosexual or same gender, where do you start?

I suggest exploring methods and kinds various of pleasure sessions.

Keys of the art of pleasure

  • Anticipation
  • Scheduling or if you have the ‘time’ and ‘space’  spontaneous
  • Setting the space
  • Take your time for your lover to relax
  • Enliven the senses: Temperature, refreshments, lighting, privacy, music, sense.
  • Oil if needed
  • Have your lover know you will pamper them with NO need of ‘returning the favour’ ( maybe at another time).
  • Start at the head, neck, hands, arms , shoulders, feet, calves, legs, back, chest.
  • It’s fun to build energy, build, pleasure, from the extremities towards the centre of the body.
  • Ask your partner for feedback, Start slow, then build with feedback and directions.
  • Taking your time.
  • Being of service, being in the moment of the pleasure not the result.
  • Want to learn more ????? learn more of the secrets for sacred love.
  • Tantra Teacher training for professional and personal use.

Learn more about the Art of Pleasure at the August LoveWorks Tantra teacher training

 

Tantra as a Spiritual Path

January 05, 2020
by Bliss
#tantratraining#couplesCoaching#loveandrelationships#couplesmeditiation
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Tantra as a Spiritual Path

Your intimate connection with a partner is not only a way to explore pleasure and love, it is also a way to find, and deepen your spiritual path.

It is valuable to set aside special times to treat your lovemaking as a spiritual practice.

Meditation, prayer, ritual and ceremony are common practices people use on a spiritual path and these can be combined into lovemaking by:

Creating the right attitude.

Plan with your partner : ‘Let’s make love as a meditation today.’

This creates the mind-set that everything you do in this particular session is for your spiritual growth.

Creating a special space, prepare and tidy the space perhaps  by placing ritual objects on a small table nearbyflowers, incense, candles and other special objects of spiritual significance for you.

Sitting opposite each other and making a devotion.

This is like a prayer where you can say things such as

‘May our energy and intention of our lovemaking today be devoted to our bonding, understanding ourselves and each other. speaking words of kindness daily and frequently to each other,’

What ever is appropriate for you.

Discover more about Tantra as a spiritual path.

Learn more in the Tantra LoveWorks sessions for couples, singles and in the professional Loveworks Tantra trainings.

 

Couples Coaching Communication

January 04, 2020
by Bliss
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Couples coaching communication

One of the common problems in relationships and partnership is that often partners feel they are not being appreciated enough for what they do, yet this is often because we forget to voice our appreciation of our partner.

Commonly, we do not realise that we get into the habit of finding what our partner does wrong.

If we stop and bring awareness to our communications it can be a rude surprise to acknowledge that we can put down partner, find fault, generalise in a mean and hurtful way.

We need to make it a daily practice to scan all the things our partner does, and let them know that we appreciate them

Often under appreciation grows into  resentment and then a competition for power, a battle. As team-mates in love, partners, lovers should be empowering each other to feel good, but instead they often get into the habit of fault finding and then they only empower each other to feel bad.

This is when love not only turns sour … it goes rancid!

Can we do better couples communication ?

Better in life, not only business, the car, the house, but let’s look at the heart.

Why so many are suffering,  experiencing a struggle in matters of the heart.

What can be simple to think and to say, instead of falling in automatic regressive patterns that degrade the quality of life.

Here we are in 2020 and so many of us have been exposed to mindfulness, we may taking moments in nature to sustain and replenish ourselves and yet relationships and families are in crisis.

This is what the Loveworks Program offers ways of moving forward and relearning love and sustaining love through the hard times.

 

 

Alone-ness

October 10, 2019
by Diane
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Alone-ness

What is it to explore and continue to find your own alone-ness?
Many people in relationship  are trying to remain themselves. Both lovers are related and yet independent and hence often a struggle arise. They forget to discuss their values, aspirations and activities or ideas  and may become resentful.

What can we do: Giving time, encouraging, letting go of the other.
Don’t be your partners missing piece, or them yours. LoveWorks Tantra sessions builds skills for intimacy and passion plus valuing and nurturing polarity. This maintains the space for the spark to be charged!

These are musings…

Skills to assist

Mindfulness and meditation

Authentic and respectful communication

Time out

Discussed values and boundaries

And sharing pleasures with your partner.

more to come…

Sacred sexuality intimacy connection and dating aps

January 04, 2019
by Diane
Would you rather be addicted to your phone or love?
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Addicted you your phone when you would rather make love?

Sacred sexuality | Intimate connection | Dating Aps

By Lucy Fisher Featured writer for Australian School of Tantra  ( with Diane Riley)

Dating Aps: As a single 30 – something woman looking for love, I can’t help but observe a rapidly changing climate in the dating aps world. Beneath the fun, frivolous, commitment free, variety filled veneer of modern dating, lies a darker reality of a growing epidemic. The expedient use of dating apps and social media portals is taking its toll on interpersonal relating in an alarmingly inconspicuous manner, well at least to the majority. The volume of choice and vast opportunity for fast, easy casual sex or even “sexting” is seeing a decline in foundational aspects of dating.

What has happened ?

We have somehow managed to completely bypass the whole “getting to know you“ stage of meeting someone new, to the “dick pic” and “what are you wearing now “ phase . The great deficit in intimacy and connection that has become the new norm in dating protocol, isn’t just a frustrating side affect of the technological age of dating , but a detrimental one , resulting in the nullification of personal growth, mature communication and intimacy.! !

Casual Dating a convenience?

Although one could argue that casual dating isn’t anything new, it has definitely transcended to unparalleled heights of convenience, superficiality, disconnection and disposal, that arbours greater overall consequences than we really like to pay attention to. Sure, we are all busy, just trying to get our needs met and ticking it off on our “to do” list, right? but connections created immediacy, self satisfaction and convenience, leaves us soulfully, energetically and emotionally undernourished . This can be hard to detect in our day to day lives, as we heavily busy ourselves with endless distraction, avoiding any time and space in which we may actually stop, sit and reflect upon the needs of our hungry soul.! !

How can we make Lovework? 

In a blog post about this for Psychology Today,

Jen Kim writes about how in modern dating life, we no longer have the feeling of scarcity, as there are always so many options at our fingertips. This doesn’t just make us picky, but arguably unreasonably so. “How quickly have we thumbed left simply because the face peering back at us had an eyebrow hair out of place or because the guy seemed short even though you could only see his head?” she writes. “How many amazing potential mates have we missed out on because we were convinced the next profile would be better?” In the end, attraction is about more than just a photo. It’s more than just an instant spark on a first date, or a Valentine’s Day card. Ultimately, while dating apps bring us closer to people we might not otherwise have met, the issues they cause paradoxically make it even more difficult to make a connection. To avoid falling in the maximising trap, if you think you’ve met someone and it could be something good, try and give it a fair chance. Otherwise you might be holding out for a fairytale that could never happen.

….. see more https://australianschooloftantra.com.au/?p=5214

 

Tantra Love

December 17, 2018
by Diane
byron bay tantra, passion, relationship coaching, sexuality, tantra love, tantra training
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 What is Tantra Love ?

Tantra Love

Tantra Love is about expanding and deepening our  life.  Tantra is deepening connections to love, and our flow of love inwardly and outwardly. Tantra love encourages presence and conscious relating. Tantra love combines soulfulness, relationship  and sexuality , and is a guide to live life passionately, with love and with presence.

Living with a tantric intention offers us opportunities to see ourselves,  ( as we really are: the good, the bad and the ugly)  so we can honour our imperfections,  forgive ourselves and others and nurture and expand into our ‘higher Better versions of our selves’.

Australian School of Tantra offers Teacher Training plus Couples and Individual Coaching.

 

Taste of Love sensation

December 13, 2018
by Diane
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A Taste of love Yummy
A Taste of love Yummy

 A Taste of Love Sensation

What does the ‘ A Taste of Love’ bring to you? Open your senses, relax and dive deeper into what delights your senses can offer your body. You can practice enjoying a Taste of Love.

We are often too busy to take a moment to sit and receive the bounties of our physical world can offer us with sight, taste, touch,  smell and hearing which are the five basic senses. these can nurture us, delight us, surprise us, enrich us. 

A taste of love,

is it in your lovers kiss, your lovers skin, your lovers hair? Erotic love, intimate love. 

Or what we can savour through the taste of love from our food.  A special meal prepared by a loved one or friend. 

Keys for a Savouring A Taste of Love 

come to a relaxing place within

bring your awareness closer in

take as long as you can and then even longer to open you month and to savour flavours

textures

sounds. 

Practice Practice Practice! Enjoy, swallow, and savour the gifts and the experience!

Advanced Sexual Secrets for Men

November 25, 2018
by Diane
Advanced, Health, Men, relationships, secrets, Tantric, teacher training
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Tantric Secrets for Men


Advanced Tantric secrets for Men

Tantric Secrets for Men

ABSORBING SHAKTI ENERGY

One of the least understood Tantric Secrets for Men is absorption of shakti energy, come along to the LoveWorks Tantra teacher training in Feb yet it is a subtle energy that you can pick up any time you are in the presence of a woman who is sexually aroused. Men may feel it but they don’t know what it is and have no idea how it can benefit them. If you are consciously aware of what shakti energy is, then that consciousness determines how you will use it. If you drink deeply of its energy, you will gain power.

… A conscious lover, aware of the power of the shakti energy, will drink deeply of that energy whenever he is in its presence. You should be especially aware at the point of orgasm because the room will fill with this magic energy. Look at your woman. Look how vital, and glowing she appears, flushed with the hormones, the energy, the juices that run through her body that can charge and empower you, fill you with creativity and energy. As she orgasms, breathe in deeply and absorb as much of the shakti as you can, then as you breathe out, imagine you are sending the energy back to her.

During orgasm the woman’s shakti energy is totally awakened, so use this time to tell her things that support her and her sexuality. At the point of orgasm or around that time, the woman is totally open to receiving imprints, things that you say to her. Never say anything that puts her down or makes her feel bad after orgasm because she is very open then. Utilise the time for healing. Say something about your love for her, how close you feel to her. Or use it as a time to override old patterns that she may have about the shape of her body or her sexual response.

Very often in day-to-day life your partner won’t really hear it when you say ‘I love your body,’ ‘I love your breasts’ or ‘I love the way you look.’ But in this open psychic state she has no choice. It will sink deeply into her subconscious and she will absorb it. So you can use this as a valuable healing time for your relationship.

It’s a great time to give your partner some positive conditioning in the area of her sexual loving. In ancient India women were taught positive connection with their sexuality. They were taught that with the shakti energy they could create harmony in themselves, in their family and in the world. Her subconscious may be impregnated with negative experiences, imprints that other men may have given her. Maybe she spent time with a man who never understood her sexually, just pounded away until he ejaculated. This builds up negative imprinting about sexuality and men in general. The point of her orgasm provides a great opportunity to heal some of this. In this way you are absorbing the shakti energy and sending energy back to her.

Extract from Sexual Secrets for Men p 172

Learn Tantric massage

November 20, 2018
by Diane
#lingam massage, Tantric
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Learn Tantric Massage

Learn Tantric Massage for your beloved

Learn Tantric Massage for coaching or integration

Tantra massage with Australian School of Tantra

https://australianschooloftantra.com.au/tantra_trainings/

Learn Tantric massage at the LoveWorks Training 

When you learn tantric massage it has the potential for you to give your man more pleasure
than he has ever experienced before. He may have had a massage before,
but not like the one you are about to give him. Traditional masseurs avoid
our most pleasurable parts, but as a beloved you can learn tantric massage. But this time, the focus is on the whole of the
body and his wand of light is definitely part of that.

When you learn tantric massage your partner is going to love the experience. It will help shift the focus of his sexual experience from purely genital to an overall feeling of bliss on many levels. Not only will it be sensational for your partner, you will also thoroughly enjoy giving it. It will open you up to new experiences
because it will give you a sense of power. You will be orchestrating his
pleasure and initiating him into new areas of sexuality.

In ancient times, Aphrodite’s priestesses would welcome men
home from the ravages of war and, through similar practices, heal their
trauma and renew them, preparing them to re-enter civilised society once
more.When you learn tantric massage it helps charging in physical energy which
rushes pulsing through the body and revitalizes heart and mind.

First, set your bedroom ambiance: music, lighting, temperature and
refreshments. Be sure to reserve this time for his pleasure; let him relax; he
doesn’t have to do anything except receive your attention and your love.
For many men, to hear that all they need to do is to enjoy their woman’s
loving attention is a dream come true!

Chose your clothing as in supporting you being an ‘initiator’. For some
women, this can mean lacy underwear, for others it could be transparent
scarves and beads, for others still, maybe black leather.

Have massage oils prepared, a towel, warm water and, if you have one, a
massage table. Check to see you have everything ready so that you don’t
have to be distracted or keep getting up to find something.

After you learn tantric massage prepare your partner. Perhaps scrub his back in the bath and towel him
down. You could offer him his favourite food or drink and provide some…

From ‘Sexy and Sacred, sexual secrets for women’.. by Diane  Riley 

Tantric Love Mandala

April 11, 2018
by Diane
australian school of tantra, tantra Breath, tantra byron bay, Tantric Love Mandala
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TANTRIC LOVE MANDALA


” What I’m going to share with you experience I consider the diamond in the Lotus of my work”. As a guest at the Taste of Love festival this Saturday  14th April 2018 in Byron Bay

The roots of this practice came from Tibetan Monasteries where human mandalas were formed on the floor and they would chant.

De Raaj, an amazing teacher brought it to the west, and adapted it to include his expertise in Tibetan Pulsing.

Kerry has adapted it again to ad Tantric practice so there will be Kundalini running through the group.

Sacred rituals and ceremonies are often done in groups using dance, movement and prayer which we will include.

“When you pulsate from your head to your toes, when every fibre of your being vibrates, when you are over flowing with laughter and joy – you have experienced a pulsing Mandala.”

An opportunity to rock you into your inner radiance.

Interactive and Experiential parts

We will be forming mandalas in groups of eight around the room.

In this workshop we don’t remove any clothing or engage in any overt sexual activity, yet I have every confidence it will be a high tantric experience for you.

Core Benefits for Participants of this Session

Group energy can magnify the bio electrical energy moving through your body, healing conscious and un conscious blockages on many levels; sexually , emotionally and spiritually
During the practice everyone tunes into the same breath and heart beat it becomes ONE HEART BEAT, which can open you to more love, joy and pleasure. Especially in your sex life. If you go for it 100% your next lovemaking session will be transformed
The Tibetan monks used their human mandalas to prepare the body for experiences of bliss and enlightenment – you will certainly get the bliss ( I don’t know about enlightenment )
During the practice endorphins are released giving you an uplifted feeling of well – being
Discover your inner radiance

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